Wednesday, February 17, 2016

Perseverance is a Key to Success in Any Endeavor

Don’t Quit
When things go wrong, as they sometimes will,
When the road you’re trudging seems all uphill,
When funds are low and the debts are high,
And you want to smile but you have to sigh,
When care is pressing you down a bit,
Rest if you must, but don’t you quit.
Life is queer with its twists and turns,
As every one of us sometimes learns,
And many a failure turns about,
When he might have won if he’d stuck it out.
Don’t give up, though the pace seems slow –
You may succeed with another blow.
Often the goal is nearer than
It seems to a faint and faltering man;
Often the struggler has given up
When he might have captured the victor’s cup,
And he learned too late, when the night slipped down,
How close he was to the golden crown.
Success is failure turned inside out –
The silver tint of the clouds of doubt,
And you never can tell how close you are –
It may be near when it seems afar;
So stick to the fight when you’re hardest hit –
It’s when things seem worst that you mustn’t quit.
Author Unknown

Success is not final, failure is not fatal; it is courage to continue that counts. 
-- Sir Winston Churchill

Sunday, February 14, 2016

九气、九局、九品、九悟、九雅。

一、人生九气
闲时多读书,博览凝才气;
众前慎言行,低调养清气;  
交友重情义,慷慨有人气;  
困中善负重,忍辱蓄志气;  
处事宜平易,不争添和气;  
对己讲原则,坚持守底气;  
淡薄且致远,修身立正气;  
居低少卑怯,坦然见骨气;
卓而能合群,品高养浩气。

二、人生九局
宠辱之局:宠辱不惊。  
得失之局:有小失才能有大得。  
利害之局:见利必先思害。  
福祸之局:福祸相倚。  
贫富之局:贫而有志,富而不骄。  
贵贱之局:贵贱皆人定。  
苦乐之局:苦乐两相依。  
生死之局:明生死,重大义。
成败之局:胜不骄,败不馁。

三、人生九品 
下三品:
自信,自信能成就一切但不傲慢;  
谦虚,自知要学无止境但不自卑;  
认错,自省有缺点缺陷知错能改。  
中三品:  
感恩,感恩得到的一切;  
知足,满足享受的一切;  
无为,安住现成的一切。 
上三品:  
舍得,给予大众分享所得;  
包容,容纳自他一切生命;  
觉醒,觉悟宇宙人生真相。

四、人生九悟
1、心甘情愿吃亏的人,终究吃不了亏。能吃亏的人,人缘必然好,人缘好的人,机会自然多。人的一生,能抓住一两次机会,足矣!  
2、爱占便宜的人,终究占不了便宜,捡到一棵草,失去一片森林。
3、心眼小的人,天地大不了。朋友聚会时,三句话不离自己和自家的人,是蜗牛转世,内心空虚、自私。心里只有自家的事,其他的事慢慢也就与他无关。
4、只有惜缘才能续缘。在人生的路上,我们会遇到很多人,其实有缘才能相聚,亲人多半是前世的好友,好友多半是前世的亲人,给你带来烦恼的,多半是你前世伤害过的。因此切记:善待身边的亲人,关心身边的朋友,宽恕那些伤害你的人。这就是因果。
5、心中无缺叫富,被人需要叫贵。快乐不是一种性格,而是一种能力。
6、解决烦恼的最佳办法,就是忘掉烦恼。
7、笑看风云淡,坐对云起时。不争就是慈悲,不辩就是智慧,不闻就是清净,不看就是自在,原谅就是解脱,知足就是放下。
8、不乱于心,不困于情,不畏将来,不念过往。 
9、今生注定我们什么也带不走,那就活在当下、笑在当下、悟在当下吧!

五、人生九雅  
1.琴弦底松风诉古今,红尘里,难觅一知音。
2.棋颠倒苍生亦是奇,黑白子,何必论高低。
3.书沉醉东风月下读,柴门闭,莫管客来无。
4.画纤手松烟染素纱,盈盈写,茅舍两三家。
5.诗漱玉含芳锦绣辞,堪吟咏,佳句费寻思。
6.与尔同销万古愁,杯斟满,莫教泪空流。
7.花驿外桥边萼绿华,随风起,飘舞向天涯。
8.茶香喉提气人神闲,捏指间,悠然沁心田。
9.玉玲珑透剔纯贵雅,载万道,滋神且润心。